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And then...

I am very excited about having a baby tomorrow. I mean, I'm not having it, but all the evidence point towards her being my actual daughter. Listen, I'm not very good at many things, and I certainly haven't set the world on fire with staggering success and works of sheer genius. Or even set the world moderately warmed-over.

But I know a lot of stuff. That used to be really useful, before wikipedia and smartphones. These days if you need to know something, you just pull the answer out of your pocket. Used to be you had to ask someone who knows, so being someone who knew a lot of stuff had comparatively higher value than it does today. But - as a parent - where a big portion of your duties beyond caretaker are teaching and mentoring and instilling values - well, knowing a lot of stuff and being able to talk about and explain that stuff should be pretty handy for raising a kid with some curiosity and excitement about knowledge.

And you know, I struggled through a lot of, dare I use the phrase, "emotional intelligence" stuff that left me with a set of values and beliefs that have been examined and adopted, not received. If I can raise a smart, curious kid with a compassionate heart... well, maybe I'll have left the world a little better for my being in it after all.

But mostly, I just want to meet my daughter. She's a proto-person right now, and it'll be a while before we really have conversations and I found out what she's really like. But I don't mind the sneak preview.

I think it's gonna be grand, quite frankly.

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pyr8queen
Jun. 3rd, 2013 10:49 pm (UTC)
You will definitely be an amazing, caring, and wonderful father!
elanya
Jun. 3rd, 2013 11:34 pm (UTC)
Congrats in advance to you both! :)
regina_of_york
Jun. 4th, 2013 01:04 am (UTC)

Congrats to you both!

yagathai
Jun. 4th, 2013 04:30 am (UTC)
Huh. That was actually rather affecting.
aghrivaine
Jun. 4th, 2013 04:32 am (UTC)
It's because you have a soft spot for helpless creatures.
silvertongue1
Jun. 4th, 2013 05:37 am (UTC)
Congratulations on making and soon-to-be-raising an entirely new, never before seen human being.
That is some magic right there.

I think of you guys every time I fly through LAX! Best of all things to your family.
- A
eefster
Jun. 4th, 2013 09:09 am (UTC)
Congratulations to all three of you on this new big adventure!
greensilk
Jun. 5th, 2013 12:45 am (UTC)
YAY!
I think your going to make a brilliant father.
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