Rum, Sodomy, and the Lash: Pick Two ([info]aghrivaine) wrote,
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[info]sarcasmoscorner, or Star Foster to her friends, is ...was... one of the most unique, vibrant, interesting people I've ever met. I just found out she died this morning, which is inconceivable. Not an accident, but a pulmonary embollism. Out of nowhere.

It doesn't seem real or true - and in no world is it fair. Star was an inspiration - she was always, always, always over the horizon discovering something new. I've never met someone who could walk across Philly in zombie makeup one night to shoot a low-budge movie, and the next be at a ballroom dancing recital - and the next singing her heart out at a piano-bar karaoke. Star was like a cross between a real, true lady from a Jane Austen novel, and a crazy, swinging partier from the go-go 70's. She was everywhere, and into everything - whip smart, keenly observant, and with a kind and caring heart. No matter how generous or compassionate she was, though - she never lost her trenchant humor.

It is utterly and entirely unfair that she should have died. There wasn't enough world to keep Star occupied for long - but for sure, the world is a poorer place, a shabbier place, a less interesting place, without her. And also a place that makes far less sense.

Star, you are missed. You will be missed. You were in every way, worthy of your name.

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[info]librarygrrrl

December 10 2006, 23:39:48 UTC 5 years ago

Oh no... I never got to meet Star in person during my time in Philly, but everything you have said is completely true based on what I've heard from her friends and read of her online.

So incredibly sad. Thank you for posting.

[info]elanya

December 10 2006, 23:45:06 UTC 5 years ago

I am really sorry to hear this. Not that I knew her, but truely awesome people are so rare, and such she seemed to be :(

One of my cousins dies from a brain tumor that no one knew he had, quite unexpectedly, a few years ago. His kids found him in the morning. The shock of it is still really felt in the family. It is hard when things hit you like this out of nowhere.

*hugs*

[info]boadiccea

December 10 2006, 23:46:58 UTC 5 years ago

I'm so sorry, Davy. I am so, so, so sorry. That's how they happen...and it's so unfair.

[info]nixieq

December 11 2006, 00:05:13 UTC 5 years ago

oh my god. i'm so, so sorry, babe. i didn't know her personally, but she always seemed to have something interesting to say here, and it sounds like she was indeed a wonderful person. what terrible news.

[info]nanne

December 11 2006, 03:36:44 UTC 5 years ago

My condolences--in Dutch we say "The good ones always go first." From what I have read in the Philly crowd LJs, I should have made a bigger effort to get to meet her.

[info]alicia327

December 11 2006, 08:56:02 UTC 5 years ago

So sorry. Nothing I could say would really be adequate, so I'll leave it at that, and if you need to vent, I'm around.

[info]glamour_junkie

December 11 2006, 09:33:36 UTC 5 years ago

So many people I know were friends with her, I feel like I know her. Or should have.

I'm so sorry.

[info]eefster

December 11 2006, 14:14:15 UTC 5 years ago

I feel the same as [info]glamour_junkie, though my friendships were more online than in person. Definitely put me in the 'should have' camp.

My condolences, Davy.

[info]passingfancy

December 11 2006, 16:34:16 UTC 5 years ago

I was in shock when I read your post... I am so sorry, and you have my condolences. I knew what an incredible person she was because she was loved by so many, and I know my friends have good taste in friends. I wish I had the chance to experience her myself.

[info]trackerneil

December 11 2006, 17:31:41 UTC 5 years ago

I'm glad you found out, and that you posted this. We were all lucky to know her, although right now I don't feel real lucky.

[info]lacyintx

December 11 2006, 19:05:46 UTC 5 years ago

I am so sorry to hear this. What a terrible shame.

[info]wing_angel

December 12 2006, 05:44:41 UTC 5 years ago

Your remembering the good things that made her special and that is honoring her memory- wherever she is, I am sure that she feels your good thoughts and feelings.
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